Saturday, 30 July 2011

The reason Why !

There's a reason for the smile
There's a reason why !
There's a reason why he feels like a 43 year old
There's a reason for that faraway look
There's a reason for the raised pulse rate
There's a reason he is so happy
There's a reason why ?
The reason baby girl is you ........ X

Friday, 29 July 2011

For my submissive baby girl !

Missing Half
by jen l norris

I’ve wandered through this lonely life,
Not understanding why,
I’d felt as though a part of me
Had wandered off to die.

The world around me carried on
As if without a care,
But deep inside I knew there was
A part of me not there.

I tried to live as others did,
but always it was wrong.
But when you came into my life,
I knew where I belonged.

The answer came the instant that
You looked into my eyes,
for deep within you, waiting,
the missing half of my soul lies.

21 days later

21 days later !

Here we are 21 days later and it gets better every day

21 days later on my Tumblr blog 

Wednesday, 27 July 2011


She sits in starbucks with her tea and sips then puts the cup down and her bracelet catches the lights and she smiles to herself thinking of her Daddy and what the bracelet means to them both, it has two heart shaped tags one larger one in silver with Daddy's initials on it "SB" and a smaller rose gold plated tag with "baby girl" on it. This is the symbol of her submission to her Daddy and she wears it all the time the only exception allowed is when she takes a shower, it reminds her of the fact that she is owned by her Daddy, that she belongs to him mind , body and soul and to him and no other. She often when they are apart during an average day looks at it and it makes her smile and want to be with him, friends and work colleagues have admired it and asked who "SB" is and she with a smile has told them a friend. They hear the answer and smile to themselves wondering what kind of friend could make her smile like that.

She loves that only they know , well on they plus anyone who reads their blogs online but as they are anon it effectively is only they who know , she looks at her iphone and she has 15 minutes before she has to go, she thinks back to this morning and how she woke to her Daddy's fingers teasing and stroking and pulling at her labia and as she remembers she feels a tingle in her nipples and between her thigh. Daddy teased her his lips on the back of her neck until she was waking from her sleep and then he rolled her to him and onto her back the sheet came off and he spread her thighs, she was vaguely aware of him kissing her belly and the top of her mound , his tongue on her clit and then down between her labia tasting her hot wetness.

As she opened her eyes he was between her thighs his stiffness branding her belly as he kissed her mouth and she opened hers still half awake but nearly overwhelmed by the sensations and he moved back and then his cock was pressing at her pussy and sinking in ever so slowly , he leaned up on his arms and looking down watched her face as he slipped into her she moaned and spread her thighs wide pulling him down to kiss and as he moved inside her faster and faster she was suddenly wide awake and rushing, climbing dizzy with pleasure to an orgasm as he whispered

"Wake up baby girl Daddy's home "

Then she was kissing him hard and passionately as her head seemed to burst and she hugged him tight her nails in his shoulders her orgasm making her buck under him and he was smiling and kissing her back and lunging into her and then he came inside her and hugged her tight rolling them over so she ended up on top her mouth on his her thighs along his sides and his stiffness deep inside where her Daddy belonged, Daddy was home and she cuddled him and listened to his heart thudding inside his chest squirming a little on him.

She finished her tea and with 3 minutes to spare leaves starbucks wet and wanting Daddy


Baby girl was really very tired, she'd stopped at a Starbucks on the way home for tea to try and wake herself up but she could feel her eyes going as she drove thankfully now she was only a short distance from home and she knew Daddy was there because as ever he'd sent her a txt enquiring what time she would be back. She'd been out early to work and it was now a few mins to 9:00 pm and in the day she'd had one 20 min break it had been hectic non stop and she was beat.

She parked her truck and taking her bag opened the front door and although the outside light was on the inside lights were mostly off except for the kitchen light which lit up the short corridor to the living room, Daddy came down the stairs and hugged her tight kissing her and taking her bag from her, he locked the front door and took her jacket and hung it up then he took her hand and led her slowly upstairs , it had to be slowly because she literally had no energy at all.

The lights were off upstairs but there was a glow from the bathroom door and Daddy led her in and she stared the bath was surrounded on three sides by night light candles flickering in the slight breeze and the bath was full and in the water were red rose petals floating on the surface, Daddy hugged her again and kissed her and she kissed him back this was one very nice surprise after a long hard day.

He unzipped her dress and slipped it down so it fell in a circle of green around her feet and baby girl stepped out of it as Daddy undid her bra and with a kiss to her neck he pulled it free kissing her nipples as he did so and then down her belly and as his thumbs eased her panties down he kissed her smooth mound and she sighed.

She stepped into the water which had a lovely scent to it and sat slowly loving the feel of the heat and lay back her head resting on the folded hand towel Daddy had placed there then he pressed a button on a portable DVD player and soft music filled the room, he knelt by the bath and kissed her lips gently

"Now is my baby girl comfortable ?"
"Yes Daddy very comfortable, but why all this it isn't a special day is it Daddy ?" she asked wondering if she'd forgotten an anniversary or something.
"Yes it's always a special day with my baby girl and I know you've had a long day so I thought you needed some pampering" he replied
"Thank you Daddy" she said closing her yes and enjoying the water feeling the heat as he added some more hot water and then he disappeared out of the door returning some minutes later with an ice bucket which he set down on the floor by the bath and then disappearing again to return with a large tray and two glasses.

"Dinner is served" he announced and showed her the plate of pasta on the tray Ragu alla Napoletana which she loved, he poured a glass of chilled white wine a chardonay and she sat up reaching for the glass but Daddy waving her hands away held the glass to her lips and she sipped it was cold and delicious neither too sweet or too dry, over the next 20 minutes he fed her the pasta and in between a couple of glasses of wine not allowing her to do anything except eat drink and of course talk and she truly felt like a baby girl cared for loved and cherished.

Then he bathed her slowly washing every part of her as she lay enjoying the whole experience full of wine and pasta and when he was finished they kissed passionately until she broke for air her pulse thudding in her ears, he helped her out of the bath and dried her then naked he led her to the bedroom where he had lit candles and made her lay down on her belly on the sheet her head on a pillow, she felt so good all the cares of the day were gone she felt warm and sleepy.

Daddy went off and tidied up and came back and undressed and kissed her neck where she lay moving her hair aside and then he kissed her collar bone and shoulder and covered her back with butterfly kisses working down to her bottom which he kissed slowly and lovingly rolling her onto her side to kiss her belly and tease her belly button which made her wriggle.

 She stretched her arms as he rolled her gently onto her back and continued kissing down her belly to her thighs which he opened and kissed the insides working from knee to upper thigh not yet touching her pussy but getting nearer and nearer , then leaning up he looked at her face and grinned and held up her pink vibe he twisted the end and touched the tip to her clit hood and she moaned as she felt the vibrations.

She was already quite wet and the vibe just made her more so and he circled her clit and teased her labia with it using his tongue fingers and vibe to tease and finger her until she was panting and squirming thighs opening wide her hands holding his head as he kissed her clit and then he blew on it and kissed it flicking it with his tongue and she exploded now moaning loudly as he kissed her , she forgot how many times she orgasmed in the next 30 mins or so in fact she forgot any sense of time and it wasn't until much later that he finally slipped inside her and filled her gently moving in and out faster and faster until she was arching her back pressing against him and rushing to another orgasm as he had his and he hugged her tight in his arms.

When she woke next morning she felt rested and remembered the night before turning she found her Daddy fast asleep and she watched him breathing and felt a surge of emotion and pulled him to her cradling his head to her breasts.....counting her lucky stars all of them .... all the billions in the sky that they had met.....

Monday, 25 July 2011


My baby girl has the most perfect, adorable spankable bottom , she's kinda shy about it because she has more bottom than most women and womens clothes in general are not designed for her shape which is a shame, and so she has to be careful what she does wear so that it fits and she looks good which she does.

She's petite, slim framed but she has what could be called a classic african american shape so her bottom stands outs, shouts for attention, and to me it is just perfect !.Move over J. Lo you have nothing on my baby girl.

We have a shared interest in lingerie amongst many and as I decide what she wears in terms of clothes and lingerie and shoes we are setting about changing her wardrobe gradually,  we have found and discussed some really very sexy lingerie including a divine white corset, ruffle panties, and lots of others which we will be buying for her to wear and as her collection expands we will be putting some photographs and video of her up on a multimedia blog with minimum text.

It will be about how she looks in her her clothes and lingerie in various poses and scenes and in particular her bottom in panties and without,  spanked or just waiting to be, is she just teasing or playing or is she waiting for my hand ?. Does she know she is being watched ?.

Will she won't she ? , where is she ? , who is she ?, all that you will know is that she is real and looks as she does and wants you to see her.

Where did the idea come from for this new blog, well shall we just say it developed from our admiration of another blog we both like and by the end of the conversation I decided we would.

Have a look for yourself  Bottoms up Baby Girl !



She stands hands upon her head fingers linked facing a corner in the bedroom with a blank wall to her left and the window to her right she has been there a few minutes waiting for Daddy her dark grey skirt is rucked up around her hips , she is not wearing panties and her bottom is on show. She is waiting for Daddy, he is finishing off cleaning her car out on the drive, it's early on a Sunday afternoon sunny and quite hot and humid she can feel herself sweating it runs down her back , the drone of a motor mower and a dark barking drift in through the open window but otherwise it's quiet. She's nervous , but there is a slow excitement building an anticipation of what is to come, being spanked for her is a mix of punishment but usually the prelude to other sex sometimes though Daddy spanks , teased and fingers her and then makes her wait for the rest.

This time she forgot to wash up the breakfast dishes having got caught up in something online  and Daddy who had been out to gas up her car came back and found them unwashed and her on her lap top in the bedroom and now here she was wondering how he would spank her and if there would be corner time or some other punishment as well such as curfew , TV restrictions or the one she really did not like orgasm denial.

She heard the door open behind her and she looked down at the floor as Daddy came into the room and saw his baby girl waiting as instructed , he sat down on the end of the bed and told her to turn round which she did shuffling to face him trying to avoid his eyes and he patted his knee and she felt her belly flip and she moved to him and obediently went across his knee and onto the bed he settled her across him and brought his other leg across hers trapping her in place as his hand stroked her full cheeks

"Well baby girl , can you explain what happened with the washing up this morning ?"
"I'm sorry Daddy I forgot the time and then you were home really please !! "
" Baby girl you had one thing to do after breakfast didn't you ?"
"Yes Daddy" she sighed as he pushed her thighs open adjusting his leg across hers she now felt very vulnerable , trapped across his knee her big bottom open to his hand and her thighs spread

"Well you know baby girl what happens to you when you disappoint Daddy ?"
"Yes Daddy , I get spanked Daddy "

"Yes you do baby girl  " and brought his hand down hard across her bottom cheeks
 "OWeeeeeeeeeeeee" she yelped
"Owweeeeeee Daddyyyy pleaseeee " 

Baby girl feels her bottom cheeks warming and wriggles on his lap

"This is what baby girl needs isn't it ?"
"Unnnhhhh Daddy..... "
 "Well baby girl " he askes a second time 
 "Yes Daddy " she gasps as his hand continues to spank not too hard but enough now to raise a pinky red flush on her cheeks and upper thighs

The he pauses and pushes her thighs wider so that her very wet pussy is exposed she squirms but her thighs stay open and she feels his fingers teasing her labia, she's so very wet now, it seems these days so easily and she can feel herself drip

"Baby girl you are so wet "
"Unnhhh mmmmpppppphhhh yes Daddy" she sighs eyes closed mouth open enjoying his fingers slipping and pressing in and out of her


"So what will we remember baby girl ?"

"To do the washing up Daddy "  she gasps her bottom now burning stinging and hot , his fingers return to her pussy stroking and teasing a thumb brushing the tight ring of her bottom which makes her wriggle more and then his fingers are inside her and she moans loudly unable to control her responses to his fingering and teasing her clit she squirms and pants and moans as he brings her to the edge of an orgasm and then tips her over it his fingers inside her as she jerks and moans loudly and crashes squeezing his hand tight between her thighs.

She loves being spanked but she loves the effect it has on her more and she absolutely adores the way her Daddy makes her cum ..... 

Sunday, 24 July 2011


This is a question I have asked myself countless times over the past two weeks and here are some of the answers

Her mind
Her humour
Her soul
Her spirit
Her physicality
Her small perky breasts
Her big bottom made for spanking     
Her neck made to kiss
Her mouth
Her smooth gorgeous thighs
Her eyes
Her waist where it curves to her hips  
Her voice 
She's a brat some times
She's playful
She's funny
She suprises me
She challenges
She needs attention (lots)
She's beautiful
She's a complete woman

She has given me the most precious gift she can, her submission


I'm the very proud owner and Daddy Dom to my submissive baby girl as of yesterday the 23rd July 2011.

Baby girl accepted my offer after many days and hours of  discussion about what she was seeking and what she desired and how that fitted with what I was seeking and it came to us both I think gradually that we had stumbled , fallen upon, each in our own way the one we had been searching for.

I thought about this and making an offer so soon after meeting and yes it is very soon after we have met however for us this is right, and so I made her an offer and we set out and agreed rules and hard limits and now I am the very proud owner of my submissive baby girl, she belongs to me, I am her Daddy Dom. We discussed the question of a symbol for her status that would remind her and also be visible as she went about her daily life and I have chosen for her and she now wears a silver bracelet with two hearts on it, one has my initials and the other her name "baby girl".

We are very happy now and confident we will be in the future a confidence born of many many hours of chat and talking and e mails and a set of interests and desires not just in D/s but in every aspect of life that is so close a match it's spooky somethimes.

So she belongs to me, mind body and soul and I to her, and we belong together.

My submissive baby girl and blogs

My baby girl and I spent a large part of friday maybe 2 or 3 hours discussing the blogs she follows and why , I'd been through them earlier in my day and by the time she was up (5 hours time difference) I'd looked through them and I was happy for her to continue to follow them , she needs my approval to add any new ones. But we spent a lot of time discussing the ones she does currently follow looking at them and choosing faves and what we liked and disliked not just about the blog content but the design and the art work the photographs.

We found a lot of common interests and she surprised me and delighted me as she does almost daily with the pictures , videos and blogs she is interested in and finds arousing sexually. We've also read some of the mass of information online on D/s relationships and what other people have found and this is helping her to explore and learn about her own submission and desires.

We are closer now than 16 days ago and will be closer still tomorrow, oh and just in case any of you were wondering she will be continuing her blog.

Thursday, 21 July 2011

Baby Girl 13 days On

It's 13 days today since I found her online, my submissive baby girl or as I call her baby girl and in that time we have messaged every day , e mailed ever day and discussed every subject a Daddy and his baby girl could , from her needs an desires through clothes , lingerie, sex toys, spanking implements, fav holidays, daily routine, food likes, and on and on and we have not yet run out of things to talk about and never will.

The conversation comes very easily , she is respectful as she should be but is able to ask me anything she needs to and to get answers and decisions , she makes suggestions and we discuss and I decide , we have rules which we have discussed and I have decided will apply. She is smart, intelligent, sassy, very funny, has ideas and opinions and is inventive , creative, talented but has found what she was seeking a Dominant Daddy who will give her loving Dominance which she needs to be the person she is and to be happy and fulfilled.

She is not the first submissive woman I have had a relationship with but she will be the last, I have found my soul mate that one special person and yes there will be problems and ups and downs, we will be tested but we will get through all that together.

Sunday, 17 July 2011


I've been thinking about the events of the past week and also about my submissive baby girl , I call her baby girl but she is submissive as she makes clear in her blog which is posted on this site and is in my view highly readable (but then I would say that).

So has the euphoria worn off , yes and no, do I still get the shivers when she whispers "Yes Daddy" yes I do but I am no longer as totally stunned as I was earlier in the week trying to make out if this was a sophisticated deception or real. Lucky for me it's real !.

This has been replaced by a deeper sense of connection , we IM , e mail and speak every day, in fact if you mapped a time line for our contact across any of the past 8 days you would see it develop and from Tuesday of this week on there would be phone calls as well. This sense of connection is intense and deepening with each day as we learn more about each other and I come to appreciate the unique and beautiful person I have been so lucky to meet.

The true test I is not when you are with the person but away from them , because there is a 5 hour time difference there is a period when either one of us is asleep and then we are separated by the time and the distance and then you have a chance to reflect and upon reflection ask yourself the question how do I feel ?.

Now thats easy, I miss her ......

Friday, 15 July 2011

Seven Days on

Seven days on from an initial message on and a snappy few messages then a chat on the site and then we moved to yahoo messenger for ease of use and a weekend lost in chatting by IM exchanging e mails photos more IM and now 3 days of not just e contact throughout the day but speaking and last night IM with cam video we have communicated more than a lot of couples have over this past week.

The chances on finding someone so compatible as I have must be long odd, then  factor in ok so you have found someone but are they real or a figment of imagination ( yes my submissive bay girl is real) and even now the way we are connecting is just so good it's un nerving and we keep coming across similarities in terms of style , clothes ideas, food, interests and of course the icing on the cake sex.

Will we still be together in a week yes, will I still feel the same way about her , yes, will we be together in a year yes, will we marry , yes, are we happy yes, this is a once in a lifetime event a game changer , deal breaker and  I am not letting her get away (not that she would want to ). So if you ar  out there and wondering will I ever find that one special person in this whole wide world , the answer is yes I did and if I did so can you .

Wednesday, 13 July 2011

What I LOVE ! about my submissive baby girl

What do I love about my submissive baby girl ?

Well the list would run to several pages , google would grind to a halt trying to retrive all the data  , really yes it would and even then there would be something remaining that I had not listed or described because I simply do not have the words too describe what it is... I love about my submissive girl.

Well I'll give a flavour , she is intelligent , she has a glorious sense of humour, she is thoughtful, imaginative, she is in my view quite the most beautiful woman I have ever met , I love her submission to me, her need, her desires, her giggle, her laugh, her voice, the way when she days "Daddy" her voice dips unconciously it sends shivers through me to hear her say that, I love all of her  she is the closest person to me in this world my soul, my submissive baby girl !.

Let the cynics laugh, let the sceptics point out the pitfalls, the dangers, let them smile knowingly because I know when I look into those eyes and she whispers to me "Yes Daddy"  that she is the one I have searched for in vain for a long long time, we are happy. Those of you who have found their one will know what I describe , the unalloyed joy of finding that one person who was meant for you.

If you want to get a hint as to what I mean read her blog and enjoy send her comments etc she will reply having asked me if she may which is as it should be between us, it's as we wish it.

Tuesday, 12 July 2011

My submisisve baby girl

A week is often said to be a long time in politics but it's nothing to 6 days in life when you meet someone you connect with and find as you chat you have so much in common with , you agree so much with, their personality comes through across the space between you leaping off the screen at you. So at first you are sceptical then the realisation grows as you chat exchange ideas , routine stuff, likes dislikes , hard limits etc it all cascades like a roller coaster.

Well it's happened to me and I never saw it coming what started off as a simple message on CM to Daddy ??? has in 6 short days brought me together with my baby girl, my submissive baby girl as she is more widely know through her blog. Thing is I'm not 19 , I'm world weary and cynical , cautious by nature , and with a healthy degree of cynicism but she is even better than I dared hope , I was looking for a submissive woman with personality , a soul match, not a shadow or just an online ghost but someone who is serious and who I could make that mental connection with first.

I've found her , yes I hear the cries thundering across the net " no fool like an old fool" but better to take a chance as we all do when meeting someone at a social event , a bar or wherever we do than to be alone aloof , cold and right , yes no one can get to me thats because your heart is dead there is no you to get to.

The whole of life is a risk , will there be problems yes, will there be tears yes when I spank her when she needs it , but really yes there is a risk but you have to decide that for yourselves not remain locked away in your profile a pale imitation of life , look at what makes us human and go on risk it.

We are happy and I'm sure my baby girl will say if she is not, she's no shrinking shadow , no cypher, she's real, witty , bratty, talented, intelligent, cultured, sophisicated, DDG ( drop dead gorgeous) a woman who has given me the greatest gift any submissive can, her submission, and I will care for her , decide for her, cherish, nuture and love her.

Who knows if it will last we will do all we can to make it last, how long do relationships last founded on a few drunken or drugged encounters ? some years some just as long as it takes to come round ! We are happy if you are not then go and seek your "One" I have found mine .....

Sunday, 10 July 2011

A start

It's not easy to start again , to trust to expose yourself to the vagaries of life especially on a personal basis and especially in a world that sometimes reacts badly to difference to anyhting deemed outside of the norm. But a few weeks ago I decided I would and opened an account on and posted a profile , edited it over a few days until I was happy with it and had a look around. Well all human life is there a reflection of the rest of our world and I met up with some nice people enjoyed a few intelligent chats and exchanged messages with quite a few people mostly as a result of me reading profiles and sending messages.

If you don't ask you don't get , and if you don't try it won't happen, I did with one partuclar profile BellaLuna11 the single question was "Daddy?..." and that got my attention not sure why there was something about it and the profile pic that intrigued so I sent a one or two liner message after reading her profile, I wanted to know more , there was something that came across to me that whisperd interesting a person, instead of a meaningless wish list taken from a BDSM porn site.(Not specific to any one person)

Over the next couple of days we chatted for hours though I didn't partuclarly notice and I found out more, the more I found out about her the more I liked, we discussed her profile, her needs, desires and what brought her to the site and what she was missing from her life.

Before any more photos there was the beginings of a conection , there was that spark of an attraction to a peronality this was a mind I liked ! not a wannabe not a timewaster an online ghost but a real woman wanting needing control and stability and limits and to be cared for.

Now there is a very definite connection and she blogs here you may be reading her blogs.